Here's the kit you need:

BMW Genuine X5 E70 X6 E71 2007+ iPod Retrofit Kit NEW
Item number: 170323567616 on ebay, $399.95
(I am not affiliated with the ebay seller.)

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2008 X5 4.8i - Jet Black / Black Nevada Leather / Specs: Every possible factory option