let me guess: sport package with at least 18'' wheels? I feel the same, but don't worry, it wont come apart, read my write up about taking my X for off-roading. The truck is robust, but obviously not made for rough roads, so it's normal to feel it not at home outside the paved roads....

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BMW X5 3.0si 2008
Premium Package
Light Package
Navigation
Reverse Camera
Rear Sensor (retro-fit)
Comfort Access
Spare Wheel
Power folding mirrors
Voice Control w Bluetooth
Power trunklid

BMW X3 3.0i 2006
M Aerokit
M Sport Package
Navigation System
BT Handsfree
Xenon HID

BMW X5 3.0i 2001 --- SOLD