Thank you Spud4ia. #1 and #3 I can do. #2 is going to be a challenge. I will keep you guys posted. Thanks again.

I bought the headlights from ebay. Seller is ParasiteSingle. Here is the link.

2001 2002 2003 BMW E53 X5 HALO PROJECTOR HEADLIGHTS BLK:eBay Motors (item 230382295137 end time Oct-02-09 19:41:06 PDT)