I have had five BMWs in the past few years, and have enjoyed them. Lots of friends have asked if I think they should buy a BMW. I advise them to drive one, and also the car they are comparing it to. If they can honestly feel the different driving characteristics (steering, brakes, handling, level of driver engagement, etc) then they can decide if they want a BMW, as the cars are indeed great drivers, and then you are getting some value for your money. If you can't tell the difference, and think the Toyota drives fine, then you should buy the Toyota because it will ultimately be more reliable and dependable in my experience. No diss on the Toyota, I bought one for my daughter. It just that what you are paying for with the BMW is more about the driving experience and not necessarily the ultimate reliability.

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2007 X3 3.0si, 6 MT, Premium, White

Retired:
2008 535i, 6 MT, M Sport, Premium, Space Grey
2003 X5 3.0 Steptronic, Premium, Titanium Silver
2002 325xi 5 MT, Steel Grey
2004 Z4 3.0 Premium, Sport, SMG, Maldives Blue