Really appreciated all replys.

I slept on it and decided to take her home once the dealer paints the scratch to my satisfaction. Its the kind of scratch you would get when coming out of a restarant and the guy next to you opens the door against yours but no dent. That could happen tomorrow but not going to sell or trade the X5 for that so why do it now? At least the cherry has been poped so when/if it happens again I am less likely to have a stroke.

The dealer took off several hundred dollars but would not go a grand. Hopefully get it on Monday.