There's a big difference between posting questions and asking for answers (including site references! that was funny) and posting YOUR thoughts/answers and asking for a critique.

In the first instance, you're asking others to do your work for you. In the second, you've done the work and are asking for confirmation that your thoughts and ideas are correct/valid.

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