I ordered mine almost exactly like you as far as options. I added htd. seats (no cw pkg.) and comfort access and did not order the spare. I've also had a 530 and 535. I did not have prem. sound in any and thought they sounded great. The sound in the X, to me, is a bit disappointing. I would get the prem. sound if it's important to you. I had a very difficult time picking color combos, too. Finally, I decided what interior I wanted first, since that's what you're seeing all the time. I went with beige as I've had grey and black interiors in the past and wanted to brighten up the interior. I love it! Then I chose the exterior that I liked best with beige. I went with mineral green. It's absolutely beautiful! I am female, tho. I think it does look more feminine, but not too much. My husband loves it, too. Almost went with space grey, but had that on my 535. If it's btwn grey and bronze, my .02 would be grey. As far as SA pkg., I did NOT want a black headliner. I was going for a light, airy interior. Good luck!