3rd row seat is a waste, in my opinion. I have it, and it will hold adults in an absolute pinch. I have self-leveling and adaptive drive.

Cold weather is useful, but do you really need it in Portland? Maybe save the cash and get the aerodynamic package instead?

Just a thought...

You have the same car I do. My iPhone works fine. Have both the 3G and 3Gs in our family. They both work fine via the USB Ipod Adapter, in terms of charging.