people in this forum seem not to wanna help us in some certain issues and this is a really bad thing.. By the way, I have almost the same problem. Bought my used X3 from Germany including TV and AUX option(dealer said so..) AUX input is in the car, i can see it.. and none of them are showing on my destinator's screen menu. If I'll find a solution on that, I'll let you know right away.