Well I called Eurosport in Westfield.
Eurosport of Westfield - Mini,Saab,Volvo,VW,Volkswagen,BMW,Audi, Car Repair, Westfield, NJ
They are all ex-BMW dealership guys. They get $85 and hour which is much better than my dealerships $130 and hour. Talked tot hem on the phone and made an appointment... seem real nice and
"Proprietor Sean Dougherty was a top tech at a BMW dealership for fourteen years. He has been factory trained in Porsche and BMW's. He has been from 2004-Present, the head tech for car #803 BMW M3 for the Targa Newfoundland rally race. Also he was Crew Chief of the 1989-1990 IMSA BMW M3 Racing Series."
Sounds good to me!
While I would keep trying to work on the X myself I just don't have the time and the future addition to our household could be here any day now! Gonna get real busy real fast!
Thank you guys for the help and I will keep u posted on what the issue was....