I have owned both the 3.0 and the 35d and neither will get out of it's own way in an emergency.
The slight lag during normal acceleration is only an inconvenience.

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Current - 2010 X5 35d
Retired - 2008 X5 3.0
Retired - 2007 X5 3.0
Retired - 2006 325 3.0