Sorry, I could have explained the scenario better.

I stop to run into the dry cleaner's, leaving my wife in the car listening to the radio, engine OFF. (KEY INSIDE DASH)

I return minutes later and attempt to put shirts in passenger area. Door is locked and requires either I open the driver's door and push at unlock button, or rap on the glass to get wifey to notice and press the unlock button.

This car has a computer for brains. It should understand human needs and unlock the door.

As to the settings on Idrive, the car is already set to "All Doors" and this setting pertains to using the remote or pressing the unlock/lock button in the dash.

I want the car to automatically unlock all doors when the driver's door us unlocked.

Thanks to all who offered help,
Dick