I think it really depends on the following as a whole:
- size of rims
- factory / lowered springs
- with/out fender flares

For my case, 15mm front and 25mm rear was the best for my set up



(275/45/20 front, 315/35/20 rear; 1" dropped, fender flare)

Good luck.

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