Thx 4 reply the kit I have is missing the iPod cable and the p/n is
65 11 0 035 962 sw 3.0 hw3.0 I beleave this cable comes standard 4 all iPod enterfaces and from the iPod pinout sources I found they say there should a spacific resistor 500oh on the cable it self for enabling the serial communication between iPod and the adapter also a 12v suply wire should be connected

sadly I still need the pinout diagram hopping someone have it and share this info