Solved half of my problem. Since the phone was syncing with a phantom phone, i just pulled out my wifes old LG and powered it on and then powered on the BMW, while the BMW was syncing with the phone (this time for real) i just turned the LG phone off and that terminated the connection.

I then had my new BBerry search for BT devices and viola...connected...and phone book download. That part is now done and fixed.

The 50% i haven't quite figured out is my wifes HTC Incredible will sync and pair and then lose the connection. It will sync for about 3 seconds and then lose the connection...it is very weird and yes i am sitting in the drivers seat while this is happening, so it shouldn't be a distance thing.

Anyone have any thoughts on my second matter?

-Jon

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2003 Mitsu EVO VIII
2005 BMW X3 Aero (6MT)