Get in the car, hold down the sneezing man, tun on the ignition, continue to hold the sneezing man, if ACTIVATE PHONE appears, begin your pairing sequence from the phone.

Having the sneezing man does not guarantee you have BT. Getting ACTIVATE PHONE on an early model like yours may mena your BT is a 2004 model TCU which were a bit rubbish and need to be replaced with newer units to get them working.