Does anyone out there know how to remove the cooler from the two hoses that connect to the transmission??

That would be parts 2 and 11 in the following diagram.

RealOEM.com * BMW E53 X5 4.4i Oil-cooler pipe/heat exchanger

It seems that there is a quick-coupler type of connection, but I don't want to break it trying to get it off.

Any advice from the wizards out there?