So i did it!

First it seems the update doesn´t work. I put the cd in the Navi and the screen show´s me "Software Update"...This can take up to 6 minutes......
But after 15min the screen is not gone! Still the same " Software Update" screen.
So i was waiting about 20min. Nothing happend!
After another 5 min i shut of the ignition and try´d to eject the cd. Don´t work!
After some "dirty words" i closed the trunk and i thought by myself " f..k" !!

So i made me a cup of coffee and i began to read this hole thread again.
I found no solution for my problem.

After one hour i went to my garage open up the trunk and squeezed the eject button and....there it goes! The cd came out! YEAH!
But no ///M screeen! I put in the navi-cd and did a little ride with my M3.
After this i went back to my garage. Ignition off, closed the door,used my remote to lock the car. After another 15 min i unlocked the car and:
THERE IT IS!! The ///M is there!
BTW: I like the night view colours also

To all of you: GREAT JOB!!!
Thank you for your support.

Greetings
Tom

Sorry for the crazy english