I see an Alpine VPE-V180A


I bet your headphones look like this



You can see the IR window for the headphones.

Here is the manual.
This manual is for the TME-750.

1) You need to find the brain for the monitor and see what is connected to the headphone output socket, with a view to fixing it.


2) You need to find both ends of these cables. They are the rear seat entertainment cables.

3) At the VCR end do you have a power, IR and AV connection - something not shown in the photos. If you have this all in one 13 Alpine RGB connector, you'll want an Alpine DVD player.