guys, so at this point (like so many others), I want to throw the DIS system out the window....the one I bought, COMES from china, not usa shipping as this sellers claims.

BMW GT1 DIS V57 SSS V37 Diagnostic Scanner Tester MINI - eBay (item 250735307284 end time Dec-30-10 08:31:15 PST)

anyways, I have only one question to bug you guys, I have tried everything, I can not get connected to the yellow head, now, my round connector under the hood, DOES NOT have a female plug for the #15 pin. should this be a concern?
many Thanks again!!