The fuel filter requirement is being oversold in my opinion. I would do it at 100,000, or whenever I had a specific problem with a plugged filter caused by using poor quality fuel.

Wheel alignment is not dependent on mileage. One way to check is to have your tires inspected to see if they are wearing evenly. If they are, there is no requirement to have an alignment. If you have uneven tire wear, an alignment can help.

Sounds like your dealer is having a slow week.

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