eWindows Plus is a splice in box that seems to work for some people and not for others, does everything except the angel eye trick. People sell DEPOs on eBay that come with a controller box that will fade angel eyes on upon remote lock and unlock, so they are out there. Also, the Intravee II has the option to auto fold your mirrors on lock and unlock provided you install custom firmware to unlock the control menu.

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2003 X5 3.0i Manual, Premium, Sport, Nav, Cold Weather, Intravee II, Dinan Throttlebody & Engine Software