Ok the pin swap was correct, as it turns out I had to swap bulbs from middle to bottom and MRBMWX5 helped me do some solder as part of the circuit board was broken. Also the bulb holder on one was shot, so we had to use some spare new ones i had and now its all good! Thanks TOM!

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2003 BMW E53 X5 4.4i - M62 engine (Non Sport with Premium and Cold Weather Package)
Color: Steel Gray Metallic
Mods:4.6is Exhaust (Pipes, Mufflers and chrome oval tips) BMW Sport package Taillamps, BMW Tire Valve Stem Caps
Medium tinted front windows
JVC HD Radio
Alpine 4x100 channel Amp
Orion 600W Mono HC Amp
Three 12" Sony Xplode in subwoofer enclosure