Can you take a log of the following.

1) Put laptop in boot, set to NEVER SLEEP, close lid to save power and leave navcoder logging.
2) Lock car and walk away
3) Unlock car after 3-5 minutes (min 100 seconds for ibus sleep)
4) Get in, shut door, insert driver's seatbelt
5) hold the "sneezing man"
6) turn on ignition, continue holding for say 6 seconds
7) Hope ACTIVATE PHONE comes up
8) begin your pairing sequence

And attach the log file?