Vehicle software is specific by serial number, and usually upgraded only to address a specific problem that your vehicle may not have due to specific installed options and geographic region. Not like Windows Update.

Then there is Navigation software, which is upgradable.

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2007 X3 3.0si, 6 MT, Premium, White

Retired:
2008 535i, 6 MT, M Sport, Premium, Space Grey
2003 X5 3.0 Steptronic, Premium, Titanium Silver
2002 325xi 5 MT, Steel Grey
2004 Z4 3.0 Premium, Sport, SMG, Maldives Blue