Ok, so this must be the 20th time I see those links. Now though, I am starting to figure some things out.

I have come to the conclusion that I need to get back there, and see what is actually installed, and which parts I need to get. The kits in those links are not available. So I think I am screwed going that route. I see this relay thing everywhere, so going to get that.

I guess I will resurrect this after I get in the trunk and see what is installed.

Thanks all for those links. At least they are all in one place now. My head really hurts after reading all this. Did I ever mention I don't like doing wiring stuff? Well now I did.