It looks like the sleeve to me too.
Quite common problem. You will need to drop the pan to unlock the sleeve from the inside, to replace it with a new one.
So, you will need 6L of transmission fluid, a pan gasket and filter (if metal pan) or a new pan (if plastic).
I did mine while changing my fluid and it is quite simple.
There is a procedure on this site:
ZF 6HP26 Sleeve Replacement by wilson009 pdf free ebook download from bmw.tech.officelive.com