Well, my wife's 2010 X3 is the same way, was trying to install Dice adapter - no 3 pin connector under the central console ( was there in 2007 X3 ) . I guess Bmw changed they way it works now. Also contacted Bavariansoundworks and confirmed that Dice will not work with these connectors. Now the only question - is there an updated bluetooth module that can be installed that supports audio streaming?