Why not click on BMWNA site, find all dealers in your area/willing to travel to for buying, hit their email, and send in your car need(s) to the SalesMgr, Internet Mgr, et al?
I lived in NJ & NY for 26 years: it isn't that big of an area.
Rather than wait for an anecdotal story on 'try this dealer', spend 15 mins copping the email addy, and send a half dozen/dozen dlrs your request.
GL, mD
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