I have the eBay INPA/Ediabas cable with serial connector and 20-pin adaptor. You need to set up a VMware (which you already have) to run it. Check out this thread on bimmerforums on where to download and how to install it.
How to Install and Use SSS\Progman with Carsoft int. - Bimmerforums - The Ultimate BMW Forum
You don't need Carsoft since you have INPA already.

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