Get you/your wife to start dressing classier to match the car. I'm sick of cleaning blue jeans off the drivers seat weekly with oyster. I was speccing up a 40d, 3rd row at two dealers when Melbourne BMW came to me with a car I couldnt refuse - black 40D, 3rd row, side view, soft close, heated seats, tv, 20's ( I swapped to 21's ). I think all 40D's come with roof, innovations ( heads up, comfort access, tailgate, premium nav...) sport seats, side steps. Driving my old territory with the six speed ZF auto seems like such a clunker now.