Just wanted to share my exp since there seems to be a lot on this topic.
First off, the instructions that came with the care suck at best. Very non-discript. Second, it paired up just fine and it took the couple favorites that I had and copied over. However, I can only initiate a call from the phone, not the steering wheel button. I haven't had the car a day yet, so i'm not sure how incoming calls are working.

The favorites #'s star with (area code) num-num. So, I'm going to take out the parenthesis and see if that does the trick.

Does anyone know the palm setting for allowing BT to wake the phone?

Also what will be interesting is that I have Credent Mobile Guardian software on the phone which locks it after 10 min of idle time. I'll keep at it and post more info as I figure things out.