Thanks for the input guys.

Looks like I'll go with this kit.
Oil change kit for 6HP26x

REALOEM says I have the GA6HP26Z So I believe this is the correct kit.

There was another one that had a plastic pan that integrated the filter into the pan permanently I don't think that's what I'm looking for.
Oil change kit for 6HP26/28/32

And the Transfer case fluid From Tischer
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This should cover it with the exception of the transfer case bolts Slick Mentioned

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