I am answering to myself...

http://www.xoutpost.com/bmw-sav-foru...abilities.html

sniff sniff.. my car is a very early LCI build. Production date April 29 2010 !!

So I also don't have the software update menu command..

Please can someone offer some help and get me the streaming and software update ? Does anybody knows if that is possible ? and what I would need ?

It is not life and death for me but I hate to miss on functionalities.