I was planning on either finding a vehicle with the tow package on it or purchasing the oem hitch from my local dealer and installing myself. Thank you for pointing out the difference their though I was not aware of that.

Thanks for the other info as well I will look into that blue smoke issue. So judging from your lack of comment on the big ticket item scares would you say that is not a realistic fear? Their seemed to be a lot of people talking about the trans wiring harness and being a dealer only install which makes me nervous.