The oem solenoid gaskets aren't great, but they'll have to do.

The ring/polishing appears to have been caused by the front main seal. I would use acetone and a rag to clean it rather than risk sanding dust getting in places. Not saying sanding is incorrect. Just wouldn't be my method. Good luck with the rebuild.

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Previously owned: '03 4.6iS Dinan Supercharged