I'm pretty sure your ghetto-fab tool was the culprit....I fought like crazy to get mine off (on an e36 with 180K miles) until I bought the correct tool. Took two seconds. Its really not even on their all that tight. When I did my e53, it took a little while longer, but basically once I got it hooked up right, it went right away.

good luck.

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