You need to pay attention to which pad compound you are buying, not just which brand.

I wouldn't use ATE. Other three are fine. I preferred Axxis Deluxe or the PBR equivalent, it is the same pad with a different label.

I have used aftermarket rotors but went back to OE and was happier with them.

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