Thanks everybody for your replies. Overseas motors is only main bmw service dealer here, I wouldn't go there if I don't have to. Yesterday I called for an oem angel eye bulb and I was explaining for ten minute what Iam looking for and he didn't know and couldn't pull it up.

I do know two shops that specializes in German cars, O & On auto and Euro fix. The euro fix was a previous employee of O & O and just opened up his own. I asked the about oil and they said they use stuff from germany called liquid moly, have you guys heard and have experience with this oil?

Stephen thanks for you input, that's a lot of stuff to handle but will try my best to be on top.