All resolved, purchased the 13th gen ULF from Bimmernav (who I'd highly recommend for customer service, excellent products and prompt overseas delivery.)

Replaced my existing 6th gen ULF, took 10 minutes, with new 13th gen ULF now have support for iPhone, VR and far better audio quality during calls.

You may be able to live without phone book transfer if you have VR. The VR has its own phonebook, so once the voice prompts are set up you may get away without using the phones phonebook. I wish I'd known this before I went out and bought a SE K800i as my nokia would not transfer the phone book.

Thanks Paul, pathetic I know but because it doesn't work I want it to.

Apart from that the iPhone is a cracking piece of kit, just waiting for them to become available in the UK with 3G and I'll pull the trigger.