Transmission fluid choices, 2003 X5 3.0i

[Elkman]

I am getting ready to change transmission fluid on my 2003 3.0i. It has the GM A5S390R transmissionand the transmission label calls for 83220024359. The BMW parts houses all seem to carry and recommend a different brand. Most are Dexron VI type. What is BMW recommending for this at this time? and are all Dexron VI created equal? Would AcDelco Dexron VI work OK or would some of the German made Dexron VI have better BMW additives or be safer on the seals?

Thanks for your help.

P.S. Does this look like a good option?

• German RAVENOL Synthetic BMW Automatic Transmission Fluid (ATF) - Adequate quantity of fluid for filter change.
  Meets BMW 83 22 0 397 114 (4L), 83 22 2 163 514 (1L) specification requirements for BMW A5S360R and A5S390R 5 speed automatic transmissions and is specifically designed and approved by General Motors for BMW/GM automatic transmissions. GM License Number J-60331, Dexron VI

Note: BMW ATF 83 22 0 397 114 (4L), 83 22 2 163 514 (1L) has superseded the following. BMW 83 22 0 026 922 Texaco ETL 7045 E and BMW 83 22 0 024 359 Texaco ETL 8072 B.
RAVENOL Dexron VI is compatible with DEXRON III, III H and II E applications.
https://www.blauparts.com/bmw-x5-atf...hange-kit.html

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Or this
Febi Bilstein auto transmission fluid is an aftermarket supplier of BMW. Notes: Equivalent to: Dexron VI, Texaco ETL-8072B

https://www.pelicanparts.com/cgi-bin...-0-397-114-M36