Ipod Again

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Hi all,
I'm in Australia: i have a 2004 X5 3.0d. I reeeeeally need some way to integrate the ipod into the controls: and i'm at this stage so desperate i'll be happy to only have volume control through the steering wheel.
My dealer tells me that as i have satnav and CD stacker, there is NO way of making the ipod integration happen. I think this totally sucks: there must be a way of making the ipod a part of the sound system.
ALSO.... is it relatively easy for an auto electrician to disable the speed control override on the in dash TV?
Thanks so much everyone - looking forward to hearing from people that know the machine!

cheers

j x