2003 X5 control arm and tie rod nuts & bolts

[Meestahbig]

I am looking to get a full set of hardware for my control arms and tie rods.

specifically the following (quantity listed is just for one side of the car):
1 self locking nut for control arm ball joint
1 self locking nut for tension strut ball joint
1 self locking nut for tie-rod ball joint
bolt and nut for control arm (chassis side)
bolt and nut for tension strut (chassis side)

I see the parts listed on realoem.com and am wondering where I can get these other than a dealer... the usual suspects do not stock these.

please help?

thx, Max