fog lights turn off automatically in reverse :(

[Clockwork]

Hi all.
I'm having an issue (I'm wondering if its with my LCM) with lighting.
When when I put my X in reverse, the halogen fog lights will shut off sometimes and will not work again by press of button (tho green fog light button is showing on dashboard) until x is restarted.
also, the same time that my fog lights crap out, I can not activate the high beam flash (halogen bulbs to flash or xenons to go into bi-xenon mode) by pull the highbeam stalk in quickly but low beam xenons and highbeam xenons work when I push the stalk away from me (yet my halogens do not turn on even though they have been coded to and have worked for years now).
its occured over the last few days a few times now... I'm wondering where to begin.