Nappa leather/contour seats - KIDS?

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Looking for advice..

I'm going to be ordering my X tomorrow. Here's my dilemma.

I want the full nappa package (seats & dash) and would like the contour seats as well. (who wouldn't?)

Nappa:
There are two variables - 1. I'm trying to keep the cost down 2. I have 2 kids, a 15 month old and a 1 year old. I'm thinking the nappa will be wasted back there with the car seats installed 100% of the time - but not on my wife and I up front. The nappa dash is $1900 as a stand alone but then $2400 for the seats and dash. I see the value here..

Contour:
Buy the way BMW bundles everything when building, it looks like the contour seats are only an additional $900 when included in on the sport activity (I will be getting that). Compared to $1300 as a stand alone. I can't see myself going for both the nappa and contour - these things add up quick!

Question - I had nappa in my 06 4.8is but didn't have kids. Would YOU get the nappa knowing that it's going to get destroyed by the kids? The Nevada is more durable, I know, but I love the way the nappa feels.

Should I just pull the trigger for the dash? But for only $500 more I get the seats - I hate compromising! - I'm losing my mind over this crap!

Then there is the contour seats.. I never had them.. Are they really worth it? I do a fair amount of driving..

This is the way it's looking so far:

X5 50i
Tit. Slvr or Space gr - loosing my mind over this too!
Black ________ leather
Bamboo
Prem
Prem sound
Rear climate
Sport Activity
20" 336
Tech
Comfort access