Ok Folks - Here it is, I got things set-up the way I wanted to
The BEST way to go (IMO) is to replace your TCU with the latest Assist/BT TCU. The newest TCU has better voice recognition (for me), it is a MALE voice not a grainy Female voice that sounds like she is in a tunnel. Yes, you do not get commands for Nav & Notepad but I never used them anyway. Hope this helps, I had to have my dealer re-code for the new TCU to work.