JACK?
 

Is there a vehicle jack and lug nut adapter to remove wheels on a 2008 X5 with 3rd row. Owners manual shows spare and jack without 3rd row but nothing on where it is....don't tell me they don't provide one?

No jack, There should be a Key for the locks. I don't think there is an adapter.

Thanks Denalio. I was trying to change the 20"s to the 19"s I bought (original BMW OEM 19"s with Michelin...for the winter). Even the supposed jack points have a special plastic surround which you need to lift from within. Used my 6 ton floor jack with a small metal block - took care of it.

I changed mine as well with a floor jack with a piece of 2 x 4 in the grooves.