Thanks everyone for the replies! I downloaded the jetware and so far it seems to have fixed the problem. My phonebook was downloaded to the car and I was able to make and receive calls. Thanks again!

I think I may have spoke too soon. After I finally got it to work and I went back to the vehicle a few hours later the phone once again will not pair or transfer the phone book. It seems that if I delete the BT partnership from the phone then turn on the car, my phone says that the vehicle wants to connect with it, I say yes, then re-enter the 4 digit key it will pair and transfer the phonebook again. I shouldn't have to do that every time I get in the car, should I? Any ideas about this? Thanks again!