Sorry to hear about the a s s hole that hit your car. I am an insurance agent in MD/VA/DE an I get a few of these calls every week. This would be filed as a hit and run and should go on uninsured motorist cov. I am not sure about NJ but in MD we have a $250 ded on it. I still do not advise anyone to file small claims unless they are comprehensive claims.

As far as the bodyshop I would call around ask the dealer and ask your insurance agent too. Even though you are not going to file a claim it wouldn't hurt to see who they would reccomend using.

It is a shame you didn't see them do it. I hate parking lots, we don't take my x5 as much as the baby mobile the "Lexus" but man people just don't care anymore.

By the way those Amish can sure build some nice buildings.