ok.. so here is the update.

I did nothing. Weather too cold. I did not drive the X for 2 days and when I started it up it gave a bit of a weak start and started. I then noticed that my date and time were reset... and guess what else? my Telephone option is back on the menu !!..

Soooo.. i did the pairing and all is well... I have to check my leads on the battery and make sure all is secure.

So thats that.